When you get an Uber and you are alone, do you sit in the front or the back? That is my current level of social anxiety. A few years ago, I wouldn’t have been able to get in the car let alone survive that awkward “are you busy today?” chat.
It is amazing how far to think I have come in the past few years and the last few weeks since our wedding has been the perfect time to reflect. The months leading up to the big day can be so stressful but it is important to have friends and family around to support you. Please, reach out, you are not alone.
The vast majority of your friends and family will be flattered or over the moon that you want their help or input into your special occasion so don’t be shy to ask. I’m so glad we asked for help and I owe those nearest and dearest so much. Maybe it's asking for help setting up the favors on the table or even a special reading. It is the little personal touches, that you and your closest family bring to the day that makes it important, unique and memorable.
The vast majority of your friends and family will be flattered or over the moon that you want their help or input into your special occasion so don’t be shy to ask. I’m so glad we asked for help and I owe those nearest and dearest so much. Maybe it's asking for help setting up the favors on the table or even a special reading. It is the little personal touches, that you and your closest family bring to the day that makes it important, unique and memorable.
Does anyone else have a pork pie in their wedding photos?
Who else had a big red bus for the closest family to ride?
Who else had a flash mob after their first dance?
Just us.
Who else had a big red bus for the closest family to ride?
Who else had a flash mob after their first dance?
Just us.
It might be a little 'out there'. But that's us. We're special. Unashamed.
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| We had a 'Mind' theme photobooth! Could you support a charity important to you on your big day? |
While 2015 was the worst year of my life, it was the catalyst for so many good things. Getting support and diagnosis on the NHS helped me get the right path to recovery and trying to stay healthy. For me, having a diagnosis of EUPD meant I had something to learn about and focus on; it wasn't a horrific shadow or even unknown.
With the help of Mind, I’ve told my story on BBC News and to The Guardian. They also introduced me to the Mind Media Awards where I have helped shortlist entries for 3 years.
Mind helped me to find a voice and to take ownership of my story – rather than letting my story or my mental health own me.
With the help of Mind, I’ve told my story on BBC News and to The Guardian. They also introduced me to the Mind Media Awards where I have helped shortlist entries for 3 years.
During this time, I also became reacquainted with a friend from school, Caroline. We had drifted apart, as you naturally do after school. Caroline had a difficult time and suffered her own frightening mental health issues at university. However, those experiences helped us see past each other’s flaws and into our future. We weren’t damaged or scarred. We’d survived and were starting to thrive on the adventure of a lifetime. Within a few months, I knew I could never be without her and on New Years Eve, I asked her to marry me.We were married on 6th April 2019 at our local church where we both grew up and we are thrilled to share some photos with you here. We used Mind wedding favors, name cards with pins, on our tables. On the back of our order of service, we asked people to make donations to Mind via the website. We also had leaflets, flags, and donations around our photo booth.
I don't know if we raised much, but it felt nice to have a positive story linked to mental health.
If you had asked me in 2015, I couldn’t see a future. Yet the right help has helped me on a path to where we are now. Mental health doesn't have to be a bad news story. Good things, like happy endings, can happen too.
Find out more about my story through my blog or browse the different interviews I've done at www.MattStreuli.uk
Thank you for taking the time for reading my blog. Please follow me on YouTube and Twitter.
Find out more about my story through my blog or browse the different interviews I've done at www.MattStreuli.uk
Thank you for taking the time for reading my blog. Please follow me on YouTube and Twitter.
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